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Online support and helplines

Getting information and support from organisations can be really helpful when you are feeling low and you feel a bit stuck about what to do. You can find information online or call or email a helpline.

There is loads of general information about depression and support options available on the internet, and as long as you check the credibility of the site then a lot of it is really good.

Helplines

Telephone and email helplines are really useful if you want to talk to someone about your specific situation but you aren’t ready to either see your doctor or talk to someone you know. A lot of email and telephone services will have limited hours, but there are some 24-hour crisis lines and services which operate at night, so when there isn’t anyone else to turn to, these helplines are there to listen and to talk. There is a list of helplines in the box on the right.

It can be really difficult to pick up the phone or send that email, but the people who work on these lines are trained to give confidential support and can give you details of other services if you need it. They won’t judge. They are there to listen.

Help online

There are also online support options available, and there is growing evidence showing that online therapy and support forums help with depression. There are lots of positives if you are feeling really crap - you can do it from your own place if you have a computer at home which means you go online when you have the time and when you feel up to it.

A lot of people with depression and anxiety withdraw from their regular social activities and end up feeling isolated. The internet can offer a bit of contact with other people so that you’re taking positive steps without pushing yourself too far too fast.

Staying safe online

But beware of safety while online. There are a few guidelines if you are registering for online sites or participating in online forums:

  • Don’t use your real name. Pick a pseudonym that you will remember.
  • Don’t give out contact details to people you don’t know.
  • Take time to build up trust with others in forums and only share with others what you are comfortable telling. Don’t be pressured into talking about events or experiences that are personal to you.

Mark"I have called a helpline about 3 times over the past 9 months. I knew I was feeling very stressed and had a lot of anxiety about my future and feared the only way out may be suicide. Within a minute or so of talking I was in floods of tears. I didn’t realise how upset I was until I started to cry. I have always felt really self-conscious and I don’t know if I would have cried if I was getting help face-to-face. Crying really helped release some of the stress I was under."

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National Helplines:

Depression Alliance Scotland
11am - 1pm and 2pm - 4pm
Mon - Fri
0845 123 23 20 or
0131 467 3050
ask@lookokfeelcrap.org

Samaritans
Open 24 hours
08457 90 90 90
jo@samaritans.org.uk
www.samaritans.org.uk

Breathing Space
6pm – 2am Mon - Thurs
24 hours at weekends from 6pm Friday - 6am Monday
0800 83 85 87
www.breathingspacescotland.co.uk

Online Support:

Come along to one of our monthly online chats. We also offer supported online cognitive behaviour therapy.

Other sites that may be helpful:

Living Life to the Full:
Free online cognitive therapy www.livinglifetothefull.com

E-Couch and Mood Gym
Australian interactive sites
www.ecouch.anu.edu.au and moodgym.anu.edu.au

Mental Health in the UK
A user lead site with a forum
www.mentalhealthintheuk.co.uk

More resources:

Visit our links page for details of other helplines and websites.

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